Yesterday this question popped up when I was with a couple of my male friends (so I think). They kept hollering and shouting that its not possible, I had to ask them about our friendship which they couldn't even define or agree. So that automatically means I have a bunch of strangers I call my male friends(so sad). Then I also asked them about women in their lives and if its all the same. One made a shocking statement like this;
"You are my friend but I wont think twice given the opportunity to sleep with you"
I really want to understand the philosophy behind this, so, if you can explain the floor is open feel free to comment.
I think ur blog is rada inspiring. Just a lil mur tym b4 we step out of being so conservative as nigerians and begin to leave comments*wink,wink*...bk to the topic,its obtainable for friendships to be maintained,bt rarely ever. it crosses the minds of the men @ least 1ce. My bestie of 6yrs(my once gay male best friend),finally dipped in the cookie jar,and yes he had in in mind years b$ it happened.
ReplyDeleteWomen and men can never be friends except where one of them is gay period. Love your blog...keep it up.
ReplyDeleteLolol!kai d truth is,its rare bt possible.d 1st thing dat comes 2a male's mind wen he sees u isn't 'I wanna b dat girls friend'.NOPE,more like I wanna get in2 dat girl's pant.bt it den depends on how d girl handles d relationship.if she wants 2b jus friends,den am sure it can happen.my bestie asked me out but I didn't bulge 4 1ce.den he gave up n said he wud @least b in my life as a close pal.
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