I'm back from my long needed break hehehehe, now today's topic is sensitive one. HOW TO GET OVER HIM QUICK! Well we ladies tend to hold on to dead relationships from time to time or Friendships that frankly cant develop into anything meaningful, forget that Annie Macaulay and 2face stuff. There was love there but in this types of relationships aint no love in it just dead emotions and all.
Here they are, just read and enjoy.
Go Cold Turkey
Staying in touch with him just keeps you stuck in the past, so at least in the beginning, break off all contact: Unfriend him, remove his name from your Twitter, and delete him from your phone. If you have friends in common, take a temporary hiatus from them, too. Because if you dont do this, you will be stuck in reverse.Travel Somewhere Fabulous
If its that bad you can take a trip to a place that’s the total opposite of where you live. So if you’re in the city, head to somewhere quiet but fun; if you’re in a small town, go and party with your bestie faraway. Travel not in your budget right now? At least hang out in a different part of town. When you’re taking in a ton of new stimulation, you won’t have a chance to wallow in the past.Buy a New Vibrator
*Yes I said that*
One thing that definitely sucks about a breakup: Sex withdrawal. Stay off the dry spell by treating yourself to a vibe with bells and whistles that can deliver way more pleasure than your ex probably ever did.(This doesn't apply to everyone but if you are overly sexually active please dont be shy, get ur vibe on) and they can be found everywhere in Lagos ask around.
Try to start eating Healthy Foods
Stay off all that velvet cake or whatever they call it and be more inclined to fruits and even register in a local gym near you. Well that's for people who have the time. It also helps.
Flaunt Your Body
Ditch the breakup comfort clothes and rock outfits that amplify your hotness, like stilettos, a mini, or red lipstick. Every stare you get equals a confidence jolt. Oh, and even if you’re not planning on getting any *wink*, wear your sultriest, do-me-now lace lingerie. Check yourself out in the mirror, and give yourself props for your sexiest features. Feel and appreciate your sexiness.Schedule a Massage
Getting pampering puts your focus back on you instead of the relationship. Plus, getting a facial or pedicure makes you feel and look fantastic. If you can afford it why not? You'd look beautiful in the end. Don't sha go to all those suspicious looking places to do your facials.Fake It ‘Til You Make It
Trust us on this one. Even though you’re not over him, act like you are…and it will eventually manifest. Force yourself to go to parties and flirt with other guys, and one day you’ll realize you’re not just pretending to have fun or playing along with the dude hitting on you like you’re legitimately into it. One day you'd find out that hey! it doesn't hurt that much any more.Make Yourself Busy
One of the hardest things about breaking up is no longer having a permanent buddy to hang out with every night of the week. To fill the void, make more plans, organize a weekly happy hour(an outing of some sort) with co-workers and brunch dates with your girls. Take on a new hobby, like music, movies, baking or cooking any will do just fine.
…But Also Let Yourself Cry
Leave enough room in your schedule for the occasional night when you stay home and process the loss of your relationship. Give yourself an hour or two to let it all out, because expressing your grief will help you heal. Just be sure to end things on a positive note, like enjoying a bubble-bath or movie. You are human, that feeling will still be lurking around somewhere. Don't be ashamed to let it out from time to time, just don't let it consume you.Turn on Your Laptop
Your friends are an amazing resource to help you get over your ex, but avoid leaning on them too much. When you’re obsessing, try writing about how you’re feeling in a journal or in letters to him that you don’t send. Yes it helps write a bunch of stuff down.
There you have them, a couple of steps to help you get over him quick. Enough of the Mariah Carey songs, have you heard of David Guetta? Get some of his songs, keep it upbeat. And to those who are searching for Love, Jesus loves you so don't go around washing every guys clothes for the sake of love.
Once again its ME! Miss Orgasm to the Orgasm-less for the Man and woman them. Mostly men sha. LOL
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